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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • You think you are being a smartass but that’s exactly what heat pumps do. The only functionality difference between an AC unit and a heat pump is a reversing valve.

    But without a reversing valve you could put your AC unit in backwards and heat your house in the winter.

    The whole premise of an AC unit is to take the heat from inside the house and put it outside, leaving you with cooler air inside.

    So in the winter a heat pump simply reverses the flow of the freon and moves the heat from outside to inside. Yes. You are “cooling the whole neighborhood” when you run a heat pump.



  • Does she look back fondly on that experience?

    Like, if you ask her, would she say she preferred doing that over normal 16 yr old things like studying, hanging with friends, or doing sports?

    My guess is that it would be a bittersweet or poor memory for her, and that given the choice she would have preferred to not have to work at a bar at 16.

    Note: IM NOT SAYING she shouldn’t have had a job if she wanted one. Having a job as a teen teaches you a lot of things and prepares you for a “real job” in a low risk environment.

    Myself, I worked at a pool first teaching lessons, then becoming a lifeguard when I was old enough. I was on the swim team so I was already there for 2-3 hours per day during the week, and hung around most of the day all summer anyway, so getting paid to do stuff I was already comfortable doing was not a stretch.

    I gained valuable skills, I know CPR, Rescue breathing, first aid skills, how to deal with neck/back injuries, etc. I also had fun working in an environment where I could have friends and peers all going thru the same life experiences.

    I am just concerned that this kind of environment doesn’t exist in a bar in Wisconsin.




  • I’m not saying it’s right, just that’s their rationale. I literally discussed this with a middle school principal a few days ago and that was what she said.

    Regardless of what you think about the policy, the fact is that your kids will have to abide by it.

    Fact: if your kid is being bullied, they need to communicate to a person of authority. Answering a bully with violence is the wrong choice 99% of the time. They are usually bigger than you and have backup.

    Also usually it doesn’t progress to a fight the very first time, usually it takes weeks, and during this time you would have many opportunities to tell a teacher or something.

    Again, not advocating that this is right, but that’s their rationale.


  • Looking at it from the other side, it’s actually rare that an innocent kid is beat up without context.

    Usually there’s 2 kids that have a beef and have been egging each other on for days. Eventually one kid says something and the other kid snaps and makes the first move but the second kid was just as guilty.

    If you only look at “who started it” the second kid gets off scot free, while the first kid gets punished. Not really fair.

    "Zero tolerance " attempts to fix this by recognizing that both kids likely played a part.