

In a computer, checking a memory address would be closer to what we would call ‘conscious’ actions in a person. It is performed actively by software. In a brain, we still don’t really have a full understanding of how memory is stored, but we at least know it isn’t part of our experience that we have explicitly defined storage locations that we address. If it were, we’d have a name for it. Computers and brains are metaphorically similar but structurally and functionally quite different.
The truth has value in decision making, while comforting lies have value in stress reduction. Choosing ‘truth’ over ‘comfort’ is a long-termist strategy. Being satisfied by a simple answer will make you feel better now, increasing survivability in the short term, but finding a better model of the world to operate by, a.k.a. learning, lets you make better decisions for the rest of your life.